Making small talk dating
Follow me on Twitter @swhitbo for daily updates on psychology, health, and aging. Feel free to join my Facebook group, "Fulfillment at Any Age," to discuss today's blog, or to ask further questions about this posting. You may also remember a time when you had work to do or just wanted peace and quiet during a hectic commute or trip but were unable to get away from enforced companionship with your fellow traveler.It’s natural enough to shy away from random conversations with strangers with these memories planted in your consciousness.If you, like so many others, underestimate the positive effect that your chatting would have on people you don’t know, these findings suggest that you should give it a try.
And the seven tips below can help give you the basis for developing your own style.But in a small-talk situation, should you then skip over daily superficialities and delve instead into philosophical questions? Taking the conclusions of these findings together, these 7 pointers will help you navigate your way to the best middle ground: You may be high on the introversion dimension, and so prefer time to yourself. However, with these tips, you can avail yourself of at least some of the social opportunities that can benefit your well-being and those of the people you're with. Being able to engage others in casual conversation is a handy skill to have.You never know when you’re going to be in a social situation where you'll need to keep up the patter in order to impress someone important or make an impression on someone you’d like to get to know better.We all would prefer to talk when we’re bored, waiting, uncomfortable, or just seeking the solace of another human being’s voice.