Lmr women dating
There’s another girl just as hot, smart, and cool right around the corner who won’t give you any crap. Just because you love her, doesn’t mean you have to move in with her.Just because you want kids with her, does not mean you have to legally marry her.There’s thousands more just like her in your city alone.You don’t need to take any crap from her (unless you’re a high-drama guy who likes crap). Just because you like her, doesn’t mean you need to be her boyfriend.Back then, if you wanted to get laid or get a girlfriend, you had to do it the old fashioned way, which means you had to hope you got a job with some cute female co-workers, or hope you could get a buddy who was a “natural”, and then do your best to clone what he did.There were some dating books back then, but they were pretty terrible.Your guy buddies might give you some shit about it, fine, but women really don’t mind.Worse, it may actually turn them off if you tell them otherwise. For every woman who doesn’t like you, there’s another right around the corner who will. A super hot girl will reject you in a bar (or bookstore or dating site) and then 30 seconds later the next super hot girl you hit up, who is just as hot and in the exact same location as the first girl, will really like you.
I’ll just summarize here by saying that if a woman rejects you, your irrational reaction is that ALL women will reject you. When I was doing daygame I had the exact same experience. That new girl you’re seeing you think is Not Like The Rest™ is actually JUST like the rest.
My second biggest regret in life was getting legally married to the woman I married back when I was 25 years old. She simply would have moved out, I would have started paying child support, and her and I would have amicably moved on. That’s a far cry from a divorce, alimony, huge amounts of anger (mostly on her part), financial expense, lawyers, damaged credit records, tax complications, bitter memories, and literally of wasted time on the part of her and I (and my children) that we’ll never be able to get back. I didn’t go to college of course, because going to college in the modern era is usually a terrible idea, but I did go to high school.
Most of you already know I got divorced 9 years later, and I could have avoided a mountain of headaches. Damn, during high school there were swarms of hot girls all over the place, and as a young dumb teenager I just became used to it. Holy crap, was I in for a shock when I left high school and went right into the full-time corporate world!
I secured her number, casually exited the conversation and KNEW I had an awesome tool at my disposal.
I’ve been talking to a lot of younger guys lately about women and dating.The art of seduction is not getting women to do what they don’t want to do. As a younger guy, I always expected that if I walked up to a woman and said hi, or asked a woman out on a date, she would get upset, possibly insult me, and possibly cause a scene. As experienced daygame guys will tell you, 99% of women are extremely polite when you open them or ask them out, and are often flattered even if they aren’t attracted to you.