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I totally believe in love for myself and my friends, but what I believe in more is that it takes a really long time to get to know someone and it's a complicated process.
Whirlwind romances were all the rage for me in 1997, but I'm older and wiser now ... The first three months of knowing someone is a time of illusions. You need those three months to gather the data you need to decide if you want this person in your life for the next three months.
The idea of love at first sight as a possible thing that happens gives me very real anxiety. Sure, lust at first sight is totally reasonable and an event I have encountered firsthand.
He told me he likes me and wants to continue seeing me and said that I should just "go with the flow".
We see each other once a weekday, and spend Saturday night with each other. I know maybe a month is too early, but how long is too long to wait for that "official couple" status. Stop overthinking the label and just enjoy the fact that he likes you.
In saying that, that still doesn't mean I don't have moments of anxiety wondering what we are.
It's possibly a control issue I have, wanting to label something and wondering why he has told me to be patient with him. Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice.Sometimes I think that its just a label and I should just enjoy what I have, but other times a label to me would put my mind at ease. I don't think I've ever asked a girl out as a g/f after only one month..